Monday, December 9, 2013

Overcoming Past Pains to Find Love Again

December 9th marks the first anniversary of Jeff and my marriage.

It has been a year of absolute wonder. I have never felt so loved and cherished and adored as this man makes me feel. He is my best friend and my soul mate. I know that many think these statements are overly sentimental and exaggerated, and I think he and I did as well when we were going through our year and a half of really hard stuff, leading up to us finally admitting that no matter how hard life is, it is so much harder without each other. We finally understood that there is a reason that we would so very regularly be thinking of the same things at the same time, miles and days apart. There was a reason that he was the first person I wanted to talk to, and with in a half hour he would often text me. We have a bond and a connection that is like nothing either of us ever experienced before.

To find out more about our turn around, and how I brought the next level of healing to my long injured heart, please check out the interview I did with Life and Dating coach Marni Batista .

After following and reading her very helpful free newsletters and other products for at least a year, I bought myself the Breaking Free From Your Romantic Rut recorded coaching series for my birthday in May 2012, and listened to one session every night for a week. Taking notes, and crying, and readjusting my attitude, and repositioning my heart, and refocusing my boundaries. And most importantly, making different choices about who and what I would allow in my life. I changed my behavior.

None of us are strangers to Marni's concepts, it's stuff we all know in our heads, but she has a good way of making us look at all of those issues from a little different angle, and that really helped me to take mental, emotional, and physical action that helped catapult me to an entirely new level of self acceptance, and growth.

Take some time and consider how your boundaries and goals are serving you, or hampering you. this program is NOT just for women (though it is mostly experienced by them). And it applies to far more than our romantic lives! The principals we regain control of through this 8 hour program apply to every relationship we have ... co-workers, parents, children, friends, customers.

Give it a try, and see if it helps you to ...
Live Well,
Suzi ~Q

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